Comments on: Balls Of Fire http://www.dragosroua.com/balls-of-fire/ The Personal Development Blog Thu, 09 Feb 2012 11:07:29 +0000 hourly 1 http://wordpress.org/?v=104 By: Stephen - Rat Race Trap http://www.dragosroua.com/balls-of-fire/#comment-66866 Stephen - Rat Race Trap Tue, 22 Sep 2009 22:28:59 +0000 http://www.dragosroua.com/?p=3341#comment-66866 Dragos, this is very interesting. I do something similar. I am the stillness in the background and I simply observe the activity in the foreground. It's incredible, but I'm not that good at it yet and I don't do it enough. When I am able to master it, I think I will have a very powerful tool in my toolbox. Excellent job! .-= Stephen - Rat Race Trap´s last blog ..<a href="http://feedproxy.google.com/~r/TheRatRaceTrap/~3/dfYgpIenqeg/the-circumstances-of-happiness.html" rel="nofollow">The Circumstances of Happiness</a> =-. Dragos, this is very interesting. I do something similar. I am the stillness in the background and I simply observe the activity in the foreground. It’s incredible, but I’m not that good at it yet and I don’t do it enough. When I am able to master it, I think I will have a very powerful tool in my toolbox. Excellent job!
.-= Stephen – Rat Race Trap´s last blog ..The Circumstances of Happiness =-.

]]> By: BunnygotBlog http://www.dragosroua.com/balls-of-fire/#comment-66734 BunnygotBlog Mon, 21 Sep 2009 17:24:04 +0000 http://www.dragosroua.com/?p=3341#comment-66734 I feel consider who said what and why it was said. Often people say things when they are stressed or mad at them self. It is not intentionally said to hurt me but it is because I was there at the time. If we interrupt something wrong and think it is said to be an insult or that we are unloved that is stupid.How we project with all possible motives thought out is a process of considering the source. Who - possible reason- and is it worthy of a reply. If it is a love one, space then hugs and laughter.Someone else, I would raise an eyebrow and then laugh. I refuse to walk on eggshells in order to avoid an argument but in order to refrain from arguing people both need to be relaxed and ready to talk. I am not saying run away from one never walk out on one but mutually take 5,10,20 minutes and cool off. .-= BunnygotBlog´s last blog ..<a href="http://bunnygotblog.com/todays-woman/coco-chanel-famous-quotes" rel="nofollow">Coco Chanel: Famous Quotes</a> =-. I feel consider who said what and why it was said. Often people say things when they are stressed or mad at them self. It is not intentionally said to hurt me but it is because I was there at the time.

If we interrupt something wrong and think it is said to be an insult or that we are unloved that is stupid.How we project with all possible motives thought out is a process of considering the source.
Who – possible reason- and is it worthy of a reply. If it is a love one, space then hugs and laughter.Someone else, I would raise an eyebrow and then laugh.

I refuse to walk on eggshells in order to avoid an argument but in order to refrain from arguing people both need to be relaxed and ready to talk. I am not saying run away from one never walk out on one but mutually take 5,10,20 minutes and cool off.
.-= BunnygotBlog´s last blog ..Coco Chanel: Famous Quotes =-.

]]> By: McLaughlin http://www.dragosroua.com/balls-of-fire/#comment-66716 McLaughlin Mon, 21 Sep 2009 13:28:21 +0000 http://www.dragosroua.com/?p=3341#comment-66716 Being honest with you (and with myself) I avoid issues until I can't. Once I am in a place where I have to respond, I over do it. To the point of hurting myself, who cares. When I am at that point where a reaction is required I only want to see the body cooling on the ground. If I hurt myself in the process, it just does not matter to me. A lot of people have said that I put too much into winning, and that is probably right. But winning for me is usually measured by someone else losing. Not that I recommend this way for others, but I know that I do it. .-= McLaughlin´s last blog ..<a href="http://richardmclaughlin.biz/project-management-sayings/" rel="nofollow">Project Management Sayings</a> =-. Being honest with you (and with myself) I avoid issues until I can’t. Once I am in a place where I have to respond, I over do it. To the point of hurting myself, who cares. When I am at that point where a reaction is required I only want to see the body cooling on the ground. If I hurt myself in the process, it just does not matter to me. A lot of people have said that I put too much into winning, and that is probably right. But winning for me is usually measured by someone else losing.
Not that I recommend this way for others, but I know that I do it.
.-= McLaughlin´s last blog ..Project Management Sayings =-.

]]> By: dragos http://www.dragosroua.com/balls-of-fire/#comment-66677 dragos Mon, 21 Sep 2009 03:45:46 +0000 http://www.dragosroua.com/?p=3341#comment-66677 Welcome here, Jan and thanks for the nice words. Sometimes my writing can be challenging, that's for sure. And that's because I'm putting myself in a lot of challenging contexts :-)) Welcome here, Jan and thanks for the nice words. Sometimes my writing can be challenging, that’s for sure. And that’s because I’m putting myself in a lot of challenging contexts :-) )

]]> By: dragos http://www.dragosroua.com/balls-of-fire/#comment-66676 dragos Mon, 21 Sep 2009 03:44:56 +0000 http://www.dragosroua.com/?p=3341#comment-66676 I'm glad you found value here. And thanks for the nice words :-) I’m glad you found value here. And thanks for the nice words :-)

]]> By: dragos http://www.dragosroua.com/balls-of-fire/#comment-66675 dragos Mon, 21 Sep 2009 03:42:15 +0000 http://www.dragosroua.com/?p=3341#comment-66675 Yeap, dealing with aggression is really an art. A very difficult one. Yeap, dealing with aggression is really an art. A very difficult one.

]]> By: dragos http://www.dragosroua.com/balls-of-fire/#comment-66674 dragos Mon, 21 Sep 2009 03:41:24 +0000 http://www.dragosroua.com/?p=3341#comment-66674 That's very interesting, d1d0, especially the last part of your comment. I understand that self-esteem is one of the core energies involved in creating your personal gravity. And I think you're right. The weaker your self-esteem the lower the gravity, making it easy for all sort of floating garbage to land on your planet. That’s very interesting, d1d0, especially the last part of your comment. I understand that self-esteem is one of the core energies involved in creating your personal gravity. And I think you’re right. The weaker your self-esteem the lower the gravity, making it easy for all sort of floating garbage to land on your planet.

]]> By: Jan http://www.dragosroua.com/balls-of-fire/#comment-66624 Jan Sun, 20 Sep 2009 19:42:44 +0000 http://www.dragosroua.com/?p=3341#comment-66624 Dragos, I am finding your 'Balls of Fire" post really helpful! I love the idea that I am my own planet and no-one can dump their junk their without my permission. I love that I can make anger directed at me, simply disappear. I am slowly reading all your articles and finding it all very challenging and life affirming. Thank you Dragos, Jan Dragos,
I am finding your ‘Balls of Fire” post really helpful! I love the idea that I am my own planet and no-one can dump their junk their without my permission. I love that I can make anger directed at me, simply disappear. I am slowly reading all your articles and finding it all very challenging and life affirming.
Thank you Dragos,
Jan

]]> By: Strategic Growth Advisors http://www.dragosroua.com/balls-of-fire/#comment-66371 Strategic Growth Advisors Fri, 18 Sep 2009 06:32:47 +0000 http://www.dragosroua.com/?p=3341#comment-66371 Getting focused and staying focused are the two most difficult things in the world, yet this post really inspired me a lot. Keep those great articles coming, Dragos! Getting focused and staying focused are the two most difficult things in the world, yet this post really inspired me a lot. Keep those great articles coming, Dragos!

]]> By: techzen http://www.dragosroua.com/balls-of-fire/#comment-66368 techzen Fri, 18 Sep 2009 05:47:05 +0000 http://www.dragosroua.com/?p=3341#comment-66368 Dealing with aggression is an art in itself and I really appreciate your thoughts shared on this. There is a lot to gain by not giving into reaction - and maintaining the harmony inside and outside. .-= techzen´s last blog ..<a href="http://techzen.wordpress.com/2009/09/11/apache-ajp/" rel="nofollow">Apache AJP</a> =-. Dealing with aggression is an art in itself and I really appreciate your thoughts shared on this. There is a lot to gain by not giving into reaction – and maintaining the harmony inside and outside.
.-= techzen´s last blog ..Apache AJP =-.

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