Comments on: Brute Force or A Gentle Touch http://www.dragosroua.com/brute-force-or-a-gentle-touch/ The Personal Development Blog Thu, 09 Feb 2012 13:42:35 +0000 hourly 1 http://wordpress.org/?v=483 By: BunnygotBlog http://www.dragosroua.com/brute-force-or-a-gentle-touch/#comment-81884 BunnygotBlog Thu, 11 Feb 2010 13:19:19 +0000 http://www.dragosroua.com/?p=4744#comment-81884 Ouch! This hits home as for the needy part, I for one think or would like to think I am the last person you ever acts or would act needy but in a recent argument with my husband he said I was and that was a killer insult to me. Yes, not ever day is peaceful and serene in Bunnyland, we have are fights which occur less when we aren't over tired and over worked. I took a separate vacation with some girlfriends and things have been better. The way I see it Only Thumper could use this statement towards me and get a reaction and that is because he is my partner in everything. Great read Diggy ! .-= BunnygotBlog´s last blog ..<a href="http://bunnygotblog.com/friends/the-clique-of-frigid-bitches-or-are-they" rel="nofollow">The Clique Of Frigid Bitches Or Are They?</a> =-. Ouch! This hits home as for the needy part, I for one think or would like to think I am the last person you ever acts or would act needy but in a recent argument with my husband he said I was and that was a killer insult to me.
Yes, not ever day is peaceful and serene in Bunnyland, we have are fights which occur less when we aren’t over tired and over worked.
I took a separate vacation with some girlfriends and things have been better.
The way I see it Only Thumper could use this statement towards me and get a reaction and that is because he is my partner in everything.
Great read Diggy !
.-= BunnygotBlog´s last blog ..The Clique Of Frigid Bitches Or Are They? =-.

]]> By: yogi http://www.dragosroua.com/brute-force-or-a-gentle-touch/#comment-81852 yogi Tue, 09 Feb 2010 01:01:58 +0000 http://www.dragosroua.com/?p=4744#comment-81852 Great blog.. .-= yogi´s last blog ..<a href="http://karmalifestyle.blogspot.com/2010/02/30-day-experiment-to-let-go.html" rel="nofollow">30 day experiment to let go</a> =-. Great blog..
.-= yogi´s last blog ..30 day experiment to let go =-.

]]> By: Bart http://www.dragosroua.com/brute-force-or-a-gentle-touch/#comment-81850 Bart Mon, 08 Feb 2010 18:33:45 +0000 http://www.dragosroua.com/?p=4744#comment-81850 Wonderful post, Diggy! There's great truth in what you say. The example at the end made me chuckle ;-). .-= Bart´s last blog ..<a href="http://feedproxy.google.com/~r/wakeupandstartliving/~3/Irm67BQbWH4/" rel="nofollow">Mind, Ego, And Meditation</a> =-. Wonderful post, Diggy! There’s great truth in what you say. The example at the end made me chuckle ;-) .
.-= Bart´s last blog ..Mind, Ego, And Meditation =-.

]]> By: Reeta Luthra | Stress and Health http://www.dragosroua.com/brute-force-or-a-gentle-touch/#comment-81849 Reeta Luthra | Stress and Health Mon, 08 Feb 2010 18:00:17 +0000 http://www.dragosroua.com/?p=4744#comment-81849 The gentle touch can be a real struggle when we're in panic mode over something we perceive to be slipping away. I think taking the time to be gentle with ourselves and working out the layers of fear that the panic sits on provides the emotional space for us to *see* what we can take ownership and responsibility over. And then the gentle touch becomes more easily do-able. .-= Reeta Luthra | Stress and Health´s last blog ..<a href="http://reetaluthra.com/blog/2010/02/08/who-sits-on-your-shoulder/" rel="nofollow">Who Sits On Your Shoulder?</a> =-. The gentle touch can be a real struggle when we’re in panic mode over something we perceive to be slipping away.

I think taking the time to be gentle with ourselves and working out the layers of fear that the panic sits on provides the emotional space for us to *see* what we can take ownership and responsibility over. And then the gentle touch becomes more easily do-able.
.-= Reeta Luthra | Stress and Health´s last blog ..Who Sits On Your Shoulder? =-.

]]> By: Richard | RichardShelmerdine.com http://www.dragosroua.com/brute-force-or-a-gentle-touch/#comment-81846 Richard | RichardShelmerdine.com Mon, 08 Feb 2010 09:30:40 +0000 http://www.dragosroua.com/?p=4744#comment-81846 It's al about the gentle touch. It's like Taoists say. A tree too big to embrace is born from a slender shoot. Take time and it's enjoyable. .-= Richard | RichardShelmerdine.com´s last blog ..<a href="http://richardshelmerdine.com/blog/2010/01/30/lessons-from-a-month-of-meditation/" rel="nofollow">Lessons From a Month of Meditation</a> =-. It’s al about the gentle touch. It’s like Taoists say. A tree too big to embrace is born from a slender shoot. Take time and it’s enjoyable.
.-= Richard | RichardShelmerdine.com´s last blog ..Lessons From a Month of Meditation =-.

]]> By: Stephen - Rat Race Trap http://www.dragosroua.com/brute-force-or-a-gentle-touch/#comment-81845 Stephen - Rat Race Trap Mon, 08 Feb 2010 09:20:18 +0000 http://www.dragosroua.com/?p=4744#comment-81845 Hey Diggy, I just realized this was written by you. Great job :-) .-= Stephen - Rat Race Trap´s last blog ..<a href="http://www.ratracetrap.com/the-rat-race-trap/some-more-books-you-might-enjoy.html" rel="nofollow">Some More Books You Might Enjoy</a> =-. Hey Diggy, I just realized this was written by you. Great job :-)
.-= Stephen – Rat Race Trap´s last blog ..Some More Books You Might Enjoy =-.

]]> By: Stephen - Rat Race Trap http://www.dragosroua.com/brute-force-or-a-gentle-touch/#comment-81844 Stephen - Rat Race Trap Mon, 08 Feb 2010 09:07:38 +0000 http://www.dragosroua.com/?p=4744#comment-81844 Hi Dragos: "You join extra-mural classes like dancing, the gym or other social settings that have a lot of like-minded people attending." On the subject of relationships I think the absolute most important thing you can do is be yourself. Do the things you like to do and be the person you authentically are. That's the only way you are going to find someone who likes you for being you. If you fake yourself into relationships you are going to get a fake relationship. .-= Stephen - Rat Race Trap´s last blog ..<a href="http://www.ratracetrap.com/the-rat-race-trap/some-more-books-you-might-enjoy.html" rel="nofollow">Some More Books You Might Enjoy</a> =-. Hi Dragos:

“You join extra-mural classes like dancing, the gym or other social settings that have a lot of like-minded people attending.”

On the subject of relationships I think the absolute most important thing you can do is be yourself. Do the things you like to do and be the person you authentically are. That’s the only way you are going to find someone who likes you for being you. If you fake yourself into relationships you are going to get a fake relationship.
.-= Stephen – Rat Race Trap´s last blog ..Some More Books You Might Enjoy =-.

]]> By: Diggy - Upgradereality.com http://www.dragosroua.com/brute-force-or-a-gentle-touch/#comment-81843 Diggy - Upgradereality.com Mon, 08 Feb 2010 09:01:16 +0000 http://www.dragosroua.com/?p=4744#comment-81843 Hey Dragos! Thank you for the opportunity to guest post for you :) I hope your readers will enjoy it! Cheers! Diggy .-= Diggy - Upgradereality.com´s last blog ..<a href="http://www.upgradereality.com/lessons-tyler-durden-ben-stiller-stop-possessions-owning-you" rel="nofollow">Lessons from Tyler Durden & Ben Stiller – Stop Your Possessions From Owning You</a> =-. Hey Dragos!
Thank you for the opportunity to guest post for you :)
I hope your readers will enjoy it!
Cheers!
Diggy
.-= Diggy – Upgradereality.com´s last blog ..Lessons from Tyler Durden & Ben Stiller – Stop Your Possessions From Owning You =-.

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