Comments on: The Fake Saint http://www.dragosroua.com/the-fake-saint/ The Personal Development Blog Thu, 09 Feb 2012 11:07:29 +0000 hourly 1 http://wordpress.org/?v=270 By: basia http://www.dragosroua.com/the-fake-saint/#comment-37154 basia Fri, 13 Mar 2009 12:15:39 +0000 http://www.dragosroua.com/?p=1212#comment-37154 Hi Dragos, this encounter with your friend is an excellent example of how we react - we judge, give value to whatever comes to us according to our condition, physical and mental alike. Sharing is probably one of the most wonderful things in the world. The interpretation contains emotions and these can be whimsical. Unless we are genuinely focused on the message, we are bound to miss it. Words seem to have lost their strength/real meaning and our reactions have become more of a social code. The choice of what to share depends on who the potential receiver is. P.S. Longtime friendship should,in my opinion , help us avoid misunderstanding. Hi Dragos,
this encounter with your friend is an excellent example of how we react – we judge, give value to whatever comes to us according to our condition, physical and mental alike. Sharing is probably one of the most wonderful things in the world. The interpretation contains emotions and these can be whimsical. Unless we are genuinely focused on the message, we are bound to miss it. Words seem to have lost their strength/real meaning and our reactions have become more of a social code. The choice of what to share depends on who the potential receiver is.

P.S. Longtime friendship should,in my opinion , help us avoid misunderstanding.

]]> By: kookimebux http://www.dragosroua.com/the-fake-saint/#comment-31644 kookimebux Sun, 01 Feb 2009 18:59:39 +0000 http://www.dragosroua.com/?p=1212#comment-31644 Hello. And Bye. :) Hello. And Bye. :)

]]> By: dragos http://www.dragosroua.com/the-fake-saint/#comment-26887 dragos Mon, 08 Dec 2008 05:53:26 +0000 http://www.dragosroua.com/?p=1212#comment-26887 Hey Bogdan, Thanks for your kind thoughts :-) Hey Bogdan,

Thanks for your kind thoughts :-)

]]> By: Secara http://www.dragosroua.com/the-fake-saint/#comment-26873 Secara Sun, 07 Dec 2008 22:01:07 +0000 http://www.dragosroua.com/?p=1212#comment-26873 Hey Dragos, It's good you took it off your chest - but, as you say, it is not about you, it's all about your friend (or the world). The thing that you are sharing your deepest thoughts, that you share your mistakes and learnings from your life it is not just great, but very courageous. I wish you strength and good luck in the challenges ahead of you! Hey Dragos,

It’s good you took it off your chest – but, as you say, it is not about you, it’s all about your friend (or the world). The thing that you are sharing your deepest thoughts, that you share your mistakes and learnings from your life it is not just great, but very courageous. I wish you strength and good luck in the challenges ahead of you!

]]> By: dragos http://www.dragosroua.com/the-fake-saint/#comment-26828 dragos Sat, 06 Dec 2008 19:09:48 +0000 http://www.dragosroua.com/?p=1212#comment-26828 No, man, no fake it, or you won't get it :-) ! No, man, no fake it, or you won’t get it :-) !

]]> By: IO_DA http://www.dragosroua.com/the-fake-saint/#comment-26821 IO_DA Sat, 06 Dec 2008 15:23:21 +0000 http://www.dragosroua.com/?p=1212#comment-26821 It's ok to fake it untill you get it! My wife thinks so ;-) It’s ok to fake it untill you get it! My wife thinks so ;-)

]]> By: dragos http://www.dragosroua.com/the-fake-saint/#comment-26812 dragos Sat, 06 Dec 2008 08:21:08 +0000 http://www.dragosroua.com/?p=1212#comment-26812 That is so true. I mean that moment about real friendship... That is so true. I mean that moment about real friendship…

]]> By: @ibz http://www.dragosroua.com/the-fake-saint/#comment-26808 @ibz Sat, 06 Dec 2008 05:12:22 +0000 http://www.dragosroua.com/?p=1212#comment-26808 It's a bit risky to have such a blog. And that's just because people will start judging you. And they will believe you think of yourself as some kind of guru. It's not like having a blog about technology or cooking or whatever. It's about telling people how to look at their lives. And that can piss many off. Maybe this will be yet another moment where you see which are the true friends. Regarding blogs in general, your friend is making a confusion. The blog is the *medium*. The medium is not deep or shallow. The message is deep or shallow. True, most blogs out there are not worth anything, but that doesn't mean blogs by default are flawed. It’s a bit risky to have such a blog. And that’s just because people will start judging you. And they will believe you think of yourself as some kind of guru. It’s not like having a blog about technology or cooking or whatever. It’s about telling people how to look at their lives. And that can piss many off. Maybe this will be yet another moment where you see which are the true friends.
Regarding blogs in general, your friend is making a confusion. The blog is the *medium*. The medium is not deep or shallow. The message is deep or shallow. True, most blogs out there are not worth anything, but that doesn’t mean blogs by default are flawed.

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