Comments on: What You Don’t Want To Know About Prostitution http://www.dragosroua.com/what-you-dont-want-to-know-about-prostitution/ The Personal Development Blog Thu, 09 Feb 2012 16:24:33 +0000 hourly 1 http://wordpress.org/?v=457 By: Maria Angelica http://www.dragosroua.com/what-you-dont-want-to-know-about-prostitution/#comment-106361 Maria Angelica Wed, 23 Nov 2011 23:32:12 +0000 http://www.dragosroua.com/?p=2907#comment-106361 Hello, I stumbled upon your blog about an hour ago, and I haven't been able to stop reading it since the first article "Life: 100 Ways to Screw it Up" - but I do have to clean my house, so after this comment, off I go to create a place of harmony, a home :) About 7 months ago I started working as a waitress, which I had never done before in my life. It was a true challenge that required speed, attentiveness, physical endurance, organization and care for those I serve. I was enthralled, empowered, in awe of what I was able to accomplish... but somewhere along the way I became a whore. Depression started to kick in, getting to know my co-workers better meant to see beyond the initial spark and find their flaws, business isn't always steady, and so I've become bitter and unmotivated, and my job began to lose meaning. Sometimes I'm able to connect with the higher purpose of it: to serve in excellence, to offer others a positive experience, to care for them and feed 'em bellies full. But some other times I just can't shake my own crap off, and the only thing left to do is to put on the mask and smile, appear "normal", and get through the day. Oh, and not to mention, I've allowed some of my less industrious co-workers to get away with avoiding the much needed side work (cleaning the floors, dusting, wiping walls, re-stocking, all the things that some people think magically happen in a restaurant) and poor me, the victim, has to do it all. I'm tired of this script I've chosen. So thank you for calling upon my higher consciousness to once again take a look at myself, and the way I'm choosing to live my life. Yes, I am a whore... leastways in recovery. Thank you for speaking your mind. Hello,

I stumbled upon your blog about an hour ago, and I haven’t been able to stop reading it since the first article “Life: 100 Ways to Screw it Up” – but I do have to clean my house, so after this comment, off I go to create a place of harmony, a home :)

About 7 months ago I started working as a waitress, which I had never done before in my life. It was a true challenge that required speed, attentiveness, physical endurance, organization and care for those I serve. I was enthralled, empowered, in awe of what I was able to accomplish… but somewhere along the way I became a whore. Depression started to kick in, getting to know my co-workers better meant to see beyond the initial spark and find their flaws, business isn’t always steady, and so I’ve become bitter and unmotivated, and my job began to lose meaning. Sometimes I’m able to connect with the higher purpose of it: to serve in excellence, to offer others a positive experience, to care for them and feed ‘em bellies full. But some other times I just can’t shake my own crap off, and the only thing left to do is to put on the mask and smile, appear “normal”, and get through the day. Oh, and not to mention, I’ve allowed some of my less industrious co-workers to get away with avoiding the much needed side work (cleaning the floors, dusting, wiping walls, re-stocking, all the things that some people think magically happen in a restaurant) and poor me, the victim, has to do it all. I’m tired of this script I’ve chosen.

So thank you for calling upon my higher consciousness to once again take a look at myself, and the way I’m choosing to live my life. Yes, I am a whore… leastways in recovery.

Thank you for speaking your mind.

]]> By: Ways To Live A Better Life | crazzylife.com http://www.dragosroua.com/what-you-dont-want-to-know-about-prostitution/#comment-105022 Ways To Live A Better Life | crazzylife.com Thu, 29 Sep 2011 06:16:38 +0000 http://www.dragosroua.com/?p=2907#comment-105022 [...] in a flow of fakes. Society wants us to politely lie and you need to lie sometimes. Just stop it. Being authentic is the best thing you can do. No need to hide your sorrow, nor your joy. They’re both part of [...] [...] in a flow of fakes. Society wants us to politely lie and you need to lie sometimes. Just stop it. Being authentic is the best thing you can do. No need to hide your sorrow, nor your joy. They’re both part of [...]

]]> By: martial470 http://www.dragosroua.com/what-you-dont-want-to-know-about-prostitution/#comment-99265 martial470 Wed, 06 Jul 2011 21:32:36 +0000 http://www.dragosroua.com/?p=2907#comment-99265 Get over it....Prostitution, whether paid or unpaid, is the original profession. Exchange of sex for food, shelter or protection, is as old as the human race. Get over it….Prostitution, whether paid or unpaid, is the original profession.
Exchange of sex for food, shelter or protection, is as old as the human race.

]]> By: Rules I Need to Start Living By « lindsayhj http://www.dragosroua.com/what-you-dont-want-to-know-about-prostitution/#comment-94525 Rules I Need to Start Living By « lindsayhj Sun, 01 May 2011 18:25:31 +0000 http://www.dragosroua.com/?p=2907#comment-94525 [...] in a flow of fakes. Society wants us to politely lie and you need to lie sometimes. Just stop it. Being authentic is the best thing you can do. No need to hide your sorrow, nor your joy. They’re both part of [...] [...] in a flow of fakes. Society wants us to politely lie and you need to lie sometimes. Just stop it. Being authentic is the best thing you can do. No need to hide your sorrow, nor your joy. They’re both part of [...]

]]> By: fitness girl http://www.dragosroua.com/what-you-dont-want-to-know-about-prostitution/#comment-91559 fitness girl Wed, 26 Jan 2011 04:16:33 +0000 http://www.dragosroua.com/?p=2907#comment-91559 Taboo for what I know is generally defined as something that is frowned upon and even prohibited by society; so 'taboo sex' would mean a kind of sexual behavior that is viewed as unnatural, immoral, and forbidden. For example, sexual activity between members of the same sex, or odd sexual behaviors of any kind. That, of course, is just how I would explain the term. I'm not, like, an expert on sex stuff. While, Prostitution is the act or practice of providing sexual services to another person in return for payment. And you are right on saying that the modern conception about sex is one of the most powerful weapons used to discipline and manipulate our modern society. But its really on us people on what we will choose being a whore?? or being a pimp?? And whatever we will choose in our life it is better that we understand what we are doing and face the consequence with our heads up. And most of all we are happy of what we are doing. Taboo for what I know is generally defined as something that is frowned upon and even prohibited by society; so ‘taboo sex’ would mean a kind of sexual behavior that is viewed as unnatural, immoral, and forbidden. For example, sexual activity between members of the same sex, or odd sexual behaviors of any kind. That, of course, is just how I would explain the term. I’m not, like, an expert on sex stuff.
While, Prostitution is the act or practice of providing sexual services to another person in return for payment.
And you are right on saying that the modern conception about sex is one of the most powerful weapons used to discipline and manipulate our modern society.
But its really on us people on what we will choose being a whore?? or being a pimp??
And whatever we will choose in our life it is better that we understand what we are doing and face the consequence with our heads up. And most of all we are happy of what we are doing.

]]> By: nice.girl.1210 http://www.dragosroua.com/what-you-dont-want-to-know-about-prostitution/#comment-82477 nice.girl.1210 Sat, 03 Apr 2010 12:36:57 +0000 http://www.dragosroua.com/?p=2907#comment-82477 Drogos..This is an amazing piece of information to live a real life...Thank you very much..Makes me look at things in a different prospective. Drogos..This is an amazing piece of information to live a real life…Thank you very much..Makes me look at things in a different prospective.

]]> By: Valerica http://www.dragosroua.com/what-you-dont-want-to-know-about-prostitution/#comment-81922 Valerica Mon, 15 Feb 2010 18:49:29 +0000 http://www.dragosroua.com/?p=2907#comment-81922 You know, Dragos, besides prostitution and all that - I think it takes a lot of guts - I mean HUGE - to be honest. Especially when you see, or even can guess, to what extent this can hurt others who are not as courageous as yourself. It's a tight and sometimes lonely road :) .-= Valerica ´s last blog ..<a href="http://www.shelfmemory.com/?p=46" rel="nofollow">7 verified ways to alienate friends</a> =-. You know, Dragos, besides prostitution and all that – I think it takes a lot of guts – I mean HUGE – to be honest. Especially when you see, or even can guess, to what extent this can hurt others who are not as courageous as yourself.
It’s a tight and sometimes lonely road :)
.-= Valerica ´s last blog ..7 verified ways to alienate friends =-.

]]> By: 100 Ways To Screw Up Your Life http://www.dragosroua.com/what-you-dont-want-to-know-about-prostitution/#comment-79942 100 Ways To Screw Up Your Life Fri, 15 Jan 2010 22:41:49 +0000 http://www.dragosroua.com/?p=2907#comment-79942 [...] lose every single trace of authenticity and originality you have. There are billions of people on this Earth and during your lifetime you [...] [...] lose every single trace of authenticity and originality you have. There are billions of people on this Earth and during your lifetime you [...]

]]> By: Tina http://www.dragosroua.com/what-you-dont-want-to-know-about-prostitution/#comment-77850 Tina Tue, 29 Dec 2009 17:14:29 +0000 http://www.dragosroua.com/?p=2907#comment-77850 I really just wanted to say thank you for this post - extend a symbol of appreciation! Authenticity ... connecting to source .. knowing who the heck we each actually are ... what do we believe what do we want ... most of us have in the past or potentially still do lack the courage to look within with honesty ... to connect with the Self ... and so, when we deceive our inner selves, so we deceive our outer world, because our outer world is a direct reflection of our inner worl - we create in our outer world the physical exhibition of our inner reality. And you have used an analogy which lends itself supremely well to the point you are making. I have thoroughly enjoyed the read ... enjoyed the frankness! This I say as I travel on my journey to ever increasing connection and resultant authenticity ;) ~ Tina I really just wanted to say thank you for this post – extend a symbol of appreciation!
Authenticity … connecting to source .. knowing who the heck we each actually are … what do we believe what do we want … most of us have in the past or potentially still do lack the courage to look within with honesty … to connect with the Self … and so, when we deceive our inner selves, so we deceive our outer world, because our outer world is a direct reflection of our inner worl – we create in our outer world the physical exhibition of our inner reality.
And you have used an analogy which lends itself supremely well to the point you are making.
I have thoroughly enjoyed the read … enjoyed the frankness!
This I say as I travel on my journey to ever increasing connection and resultant authenticity ;)
~ Tina

]]> By: Ramblings of JayS | 100 Ways To Live A Better Life http://www.dragosroua.com/what-you-dont-want-to-know-about-prostitution/#comment-67424 Ramblings of JayS | 100 Ways To Live A Better Life Mon, 28 Sep 2009 17:17:00 +0000 http://www.dragosroua.com/?p=2907#comment-67424 [...] in a flow of fakes. Society wants us to politely lie and you need to lie sometimes. Just stop it. Being authentic is the best thing you can do. No need to hide your sorrow, nor your joy. They’re both part of [...] [...] in a flow of fakes. Society wants us to politely lie and you need to lie sometimes. Just stop it. Being authentic is the best thing you can do. No need to hide your sorrow, nor your joy. They’re both part of [...]

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