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		<title>By: When everything falls apart &#124; Personal Development Experiences</title>
		<link>http://www.dragosroua.com/when-everything-falls-apart/#comment-83278</link>
		<dc:creator>When everything falls apart &#124; Personal Development Experiences</dc:creator>
		<pubDate>Wed, 16 Jun 2010 09:17:25 +0000</pubDate>
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		<description>[...] full article on Dragos Roua&#8217;s blog: http://www.dragosroua.com/when-everything-falls-apart Related Posts:You Canâ€™t Change Your Life Untilâ€¦6 Rules of Stress Free Work/Life BalanceHow to [...]</description>
		<content:encoded><![CDATA[<p>[...] full article on Dragos Roua&#8217;s blog: <a href="http://www.dragosroua.com/when-everything-falls-apart" rel="nofollow">http://www.dragosroua.com/when-everything-falls-apart</a> Related Posts:You Canâ€™t Change Your Life Untilâ€¦6 Rules of Stress Free Work/Life BalanceHow to [...]</p>
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		<title>By: Petteri Ollila</title>
		<link>http://www.dragosroua.com/when-everything-falls-apart/#comment-83263</link>
		<dc:creator>Petteri Ollila</dc:creator>
		<pubDate>Tue, 15 Jun 2010 11:20:50 +0000</pubDate>
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		<description>Thank you all!

There are many good points in the comments and I don&#039;t think I have much more to add. Understanding that we are not going to live here forever, and that no one knows when it is your time to leave, helps to appreciate even the smallest things in life and makes it easier to follow one&#039;s passions without caring about other people&#039;s opinions.</description>
		<content:encoded><![CDATA[<p>Thank you all!</p>
<p>There are many good points in the comments and I don&#8217;t think I have much more to add. Understanding that we are not going to live here forever, and that no one knows when it is your time to leave, helps to appreciate even the smallest things in life and makes it easier to follow one&#8217;s passions without caring about other people&#8217;s opinions.</p>
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		<title>By: Parker Lee &#124; howtomingle.com</title>
		<link>http://www.dragosroua.com/when-everything-falls-apart/#comment-83260</link>
		<dc:creator>Parker Lee &#124; howtomingle.com</dc:creator>
		<pubDate>Tue, 15 Jun 2010 05:55:10 +0000</pubDate>
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		<description>Wow Petteri, 

I seriously enjoyed your post. Very fine writing, you obviously have a knack for writing. 

I really enjoyed your tree metaphor, and I agree, life is full of moments that will spring up at you when we all least expect it. And it&#039;s those moments that will either make us, or break us.

Good stuff!

--Parker</description>
		<content:encoded><![CDATA[<p>Wow Petteri, </p>
<p>I seriously enjoyed your post. Very fine writing, you obviously have a knack for writing. </p>
<p>I really enjoyed your tree metaphor, and I agree, life is full of moments that will spring up at you when we all least expect it. And it&#8217;s those moments that will either make us, or break us.</p>
<p>Good stuff!</p>
<p>&#8211;Parker</p>
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		<title>By: Nea &#124; Self Improvement Saga</title>
		<link>http://www.dragosroua.com/when-everything-falls-apart/#comment-83258</link>
		<dc:creator>Nea &#124; Self Improvement Saga</dc:creator>
		<pubDate>Mon, 14 Jun 2010 21:56:27 +0000</pubDate>
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		<description>I love the thought that you had when looking at that tree.  It is because of &quot;winter&quot; that we appreciate summer.  Without the ups downs, we couldn&#039;t truly appreciate the ups. Great post!</description>
		<content:encoded><![CDATA[<p>I love the thought that you had when looking at that tree.  It is because of &#8220;winter&#8221; that we appreciate summer.  Without the ups downs, we couldn&#8217;t truly appreciate the ups. Great post!</p>
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		<title>By: Farnoosh</title>
		<link>http://www.dragosroua.com/when-everything-falls-apart/#comment-83257</link>
		<dc:creator>Farnoosh</dc:creator>
		<pubDate>Mon, 14 Jun 2010 18:41:21 +0000</pubDate>
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		<description>Petteri,
So clearly and finely written. Thank you. I read along and felt along and answering those questions helps reaffirm some of my thoughts about the recent discoveries of what is really most important. Perspective is a beautiful thing and lonesome trees will blossom sooner or later too. Thank you!</description>
		<content:encoded><![CDATA[<p>Petteri,<br />
So clearly and finely written. Thank you. I read along and felt along and answering those questions helps reaffirm some of my thoughts about the recent discoveries of what is really most important. Perspective is a beautiful thing and lonesome trees will blossom sooner or later too. Thank you!</p>
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		<title>By: Tony Teegarden</title>
		<link>http://www.dragosroua.com/when-everything-falls-apart/#comment-83256</link>
		<dc:creator>Tony Teegarden</dc:creator>
		<pubDate>Mon, 14 Jun 2010 18:30:20 +0000</pubDate>
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		<description>Ironic, I posted this quote I came up with on my FB page yesterday:

 &quot;I don&#039;t sulk about setbacks because I know I&#039;m doing what I love and what I love is much bigger than any stuff that may pop up while doing it.&quot;

It&#039;s at times the moments of pain that move us away or towards this &quot;place of love.&quot; Sometimes it takes surrendering to it. Sometimes it requires embracing the anger you hold.

I&#039;ve seemed to require going through the lows to appreciate the highs. Here is where we (i) find (my) our Karma. One can&#039;t be with out the other. We&#039;d not know what the dark was without the light and we&#039;d not appreciate the light without the dark. 

Don&#039;t want what you don&#039;t want. It&#039;s being beautifully human when we experience these moments where we&#039;re in pain or unclear and it&#039;s exactly where we supposed to be in order to walk into our awareness. 

Be open and surrender. 

Great post that lights the embers of purposely moving into that light.</description>
		<content:encoded><![CDATA[<p>Ironic, I posted this quote I came up with on my FB page yesterday:</p>
<p> &#8220;I don&#8217;t sulk about setbacks because I know I&#8217;m doing what I love and what I love is much bigger than any stuff that may pop up while doing it.&#8221;</p>
<p>It&#8217;s at times the moments of pain that move us away or towards this &#8220;place of love.&#8221; Sometimes it takes surrendering to it. Sometimes it requires embracing the anger you hold.</p>
<p>I&#8217;ve seemed to require going through the lows to appreciate the highs. Here is where we (i) find (my) our Karma. One can&#8217;t be with out the other. We&#8217;d not know what the dark was without the light and we&#8217;d not appreciate the light without the dark. </p>
<p>Don&#8217;t want what you don&#8217;t want. It&#8217;s being beautifully human when we experience these moments where we&#8217;re in pain or unclear and it&#8217;s exactly where we supposed to be in order to walk into our awareness. </p>
<p>Be open and surrender. </p>
<p>Great post that lights the embers of purposely moving into that light.</p>
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		<title>By: Mars Dorian</title>
		<link>http://www.dragosroua.com/when-everything-falls-apart/#comment-83255</link>
		<dc:creator>Mars Dorian</dc:creator>
		<pubDate>Mon, 14 Jun 2010 18:17:59 +0000</pubDate>
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		<description>wow, that was a melancholic post

Yeah, it&#039;s sometimes hard to accept the ups and downs of life. We always want to have the mountains of life, but a mountain is nothing without a valley. I have found happiness through accepting things as they are, not as they should be. A daily smile. Just looking.</description>
		<content:encoded><![CDATA[<p>wow, that was a melancholic post</p>
<p>Yeah, it&#8217;s sometimes hard to accept the ups and downs of life. We always want to have the mountains of life, but a mountain is nothing without a valley. I have found happiness through accepting things as they are, not as they should be. A daily smile. Just looking.</p>
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		<title>By: Sandra Lee</title>
		<link>http://www.dragosroua.com/when-everything-falls-apart/#comment-83254</link>
		<dc:creator>Sandra Lee</dc:creator>
		<pubDate>Mon, 14 Jun 2010 16:53:08 +0000</pubDate>
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		<description>Beautiful article!  I&quot;m so glad you are bringing our attention to simply accepting the valleys and not pushing them away.  I so much agree that suffering is often the impetus to move us deeper into true selves, while stirring us to open our hearts more fully to the struggles and sorrows of others as well.  This makes for a better you and for a better world!</description>
		<content:encoded><![CDATA[<p>Beautiful article!  I&#8221;m so glad you are bringing our attention to simply accepting the valleys and not pushing them away.  I so much agree that suffering is often the impetus to move us deeper into true selves, while stirring us to open our hearts more fully to the struggles and sorrows of others as well.  This makes for a better you and for a better world!</p>
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		<title>By: Joshua Noerr</title>
		<link>http://www.dragosroua.com/when-everything-falls-apart/#comment-83253</link>
		<dc:creator>Joshua Noerr</dc:creator>
		<pubDate>Mon, 14 Jun 2010 14:49:10 +0000</pubDate>
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		<description>Petteri, thank you, this is a great article. I always ask people to think about what they would do if they had 6 months of perfect health, and then would drop dead at the end. I&#039;m glad to see others using the same idea.

These types of questions make us consider the values we hold, not just the actions we take. I also like to ask, &quot;What would you do if you knew there was no way for you to fail?&quot;

Again, thanks for the post!</description>
		<content:encoded><![CDATA[<p>Petteri, thank you, this is a great article. I always ask people to think about what they would do if they had 6 months of perfect health, and then would drop dead at the end. I&#8217;m glad to see others using the same idea.</p>
<p>These types of questions make us consider the values we hold, not just the actions we take. I also like to ask, &#8220;What would you do if you knew there was no way for you to fail?&#8221;</p>
<p>Again, thanks for the post!</p>
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		<title>By: Srinivas Rao</title>
		<link>http://www.dragosroua.com/when-everything-falls-apart/#comment-83252</link>
		<dc:creator>Srinivas Rao</dc:creator>
		<pubDate>Mon, 14 Jun 2010 14:22:20 +0000</pubDate>
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		<description>I love that quote about the deepest valleys. It&#039;s so true how hitting rock bottom is often the very thing that allows us to reach our full potential. I was listening to a Wayne Dyer tape just yesterday where he said &quot;Successful people always see things working out.&quot; Even in our worst of times if we can hold the belief that things will work out then I think we can really reach our full potential</description>
		<content:encoded><![CDATA[<p>I love that quote about the deepest valleys. It&#8217;s so true how hitting rock bottom is often the very thing that allows us to reach our full potential. I was listening to a Wayne Dyer tape just yesterday where he said &#8220;Successful people always see things working out.&#8221; Even in our worst of times if we can hold the belief that things will work out then I think we can really reach our full potential</p>
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