Month: January 2015

Too much and too often we measure our life’s fulfillment to the amount we possess. Fundamental mistake. If you’re doing it, stop it right now. You’re not what you’re having. Being is so much better than having. Being in abundance does’t always equal a lot of money in the bank. Being happy doesn’t mean you … Read more

It’s so simple, yet so underrated. Society wants us to comply even when we don’t really like stuff. Like forcing us to smile when we don’t find it funny. Allow yourself to walk away from something you don’t like. Just do it! Saying “No” is obsolete nowadays when compliance became such a trend. Well, I … Read more

Complaining is like an open invitation for troubles. The more you complain about something, the more of that something you invite into your life. Cut it out. You don’t get any real comfort out of complaining, only troubles. Under the false excuse of “letting it all out” we’re all doing this. We’re all talking about … Read more

To break a bad habit is difficult. But breaking an old bad habit will free an incredible amount of time for your life. Quit smoking or stop thinking bad stuff about yourself. Whatever you break, it will change your life for the best. Like assumptions, habits are life shortcuts. We use them when we want … Read more

What you can do is not always what people want from you. Just clearing this confusion could bring an immense relief to your day to day  life. You don’t have to immediately provide what they’re asking, of course. Making yourself useful is just a matter of asking around: what do you need from me? If you … Read more

Create the habit of looking at things for one more second. Spend one more second before taking an important decision. Delay something. Time will follow your intention and open some unexpected windows for you. Slow it down a little. This goes also hand in hand with your performance goals. Stay in that project one more … Read more

It doesn’t have to be in the form of a nice compliment this time. You don’t even need to communicate it to the target person. Just do an incognito service to someone. See how this makes you feel. Think how many times you received that.. We are subjects to random acts of kindness all the … Read more

Make things that others need too. Make something useful. Don’t follow blind or outdated commitments, go for what really makes a change around you. Creating value is the core of your activity here and the only thing that generates true happiness. Creating value is sometimes a simple matter of looking around and observing the needs … Read more