Steve Pavlina Conscious Growth Workshop – Day Three

The third day of the workshop flew like a bird. I basically knew what to expect from the first two days, so the surprise element was out of the picture. To be honest, my focus shifted a little bit from the actual event to the people involved. During these 3 days I made a few friends and I did a lot of social interaction. At my normal social interaction speed, this event might easily count as 30-40 days, this is how intense it felt for me. So, during the third day my thoughts were much more into other people’s ideas or reactions than in the actual topics of the seminar.

On the stage though, the performance was smooth as usual, even smoother than in the second day. We talked about emotions, relationships and spirituality, all intangible stuff, but Steve did a great job in covering all those topics. I also realized that at this point I internalized a lot of the theoretical principles, Truth, Love and Power. I found it much easier to translate these principles into my own reality model (or what I call a life management framework) and I also completed the written exercises faster than usual.

There were a few highlights on the third day, but none of them really funny. It was a light and open day and we did enjoy a little bit of humor every now and then, but most of the time we were into serious stuff. Emotions, relationships and spirituality are sensitive areas. You may laugh a little bit but not too much.

What Was All This About

I won’t describe the actual structure of the third day, for the same reasons I already gave you in the second day coverage. But I will finish these short series about the conscious growth workshop with a little recap (Steve uses the word postmortem for those recaps, I will stick with mine: recap 😉 ):

  • the workshop was really useful for me. It was a growing experience and by that I mean something that solved some real problems in my life, not just entertainment, fun and laughing. I didn’t expected it to be really useful, but it was.
  • the biggest surprise was not the information, nor even Steve’s live performance, but the amazing audience. And I mean, I was totally surprised and touched by those people. We barely knew each other but after those 3 days it felt like we were already friends. Incredible energy. I’m a little bit on the skeptical side when it comes to things like this. I grew up in communism, a society which didn’t encourage an open manifestation of your emotions and I know this upbringing really marked my approach towards society. It’s easier to get over this in written, but in real life I can’t avoid it, I’m the shy guy in the back and I feel great there. This event really broke this pattern for me and left some serious tracks. I was on the stage, talking to those people. One year ago, sitting on a stage, near Steve Pavlina and talking to a 120+ audience was absolutely impossible to imagine. But it happened during this workshop and I “blame” this on the great positive energy I received from those people.
  • I tend to think this workshop was at least as useful for Steve as it was for us (or for me). I did have the impression that he grew up with us. In a very deep sense, I think this was a sort of a healing experience for him. I was almost sensing the fears he had and the joy he manifested when he overcome them. I didn’t have the feeling of a professional delivering a service (although the speech and the whole structure of the workshop were professional) but more of a real person starting something completely new, being afraid of failure, learning from each day and connecting more and more each day. It was less teaching and more sharing.
  • no one tried to challenge Steve on some of his controversial ideas (like polyamory). It just didn’t match the whole structure of this event. It was really out of sync with what happened there. I feel like there is a gap between the blog and Steve Pavlina the speaker. Those are different creatures. And, up to some point, they may even live different lives and promote different messages. Or, at least, partial messages.
  • I realized I had to come to a personal development seminar in order to travel for the first time in the United Sates. There are things that I like here and things that I don’t like. There will be a separate post about the trip, as usual and I’ll try to cover more on that there. But maybe Vegas is not representative for the american way of life, anyway.
  • the contrast between the city and the workshop was almost grotesque. I know that some people living in this town may have nothing to do with the “sinful” part of it, but hosting a personal development workshop just 30 meters away from a huge casino filled with slot machines and sucking money and hopes from hundreds of people through stupid and mathematically engineered games was just too oxymoronic for my taste. Maybe the lessons were much more powerful because of this contrast. Or maybe not.

Well, that was it. I cannot repress a very strange feeling of regret about this. I actually feel a little sorry because it’s over. And I really don’t know why. I’m not 100% into what was said here and I usually take all the new information with a little bit of salt. I don’t think it’s the theoretical information that gives me this feeling. But I also don’t know what exactly is it.

All I know is that I did have a growing experience out of it.

Now, it’s time to fly to New Zealand. 🙂

6 thoughts on “Steve Pavlina Conscious Growth Workshop – Day Three”

  1. Dragos,
    It was great meeting you at the workshop. I enjoyed your staged time. Next time your here in America go visit the Seqouia forest in California. what a great place that is and definitely no sin and gluttony.

    Great recap on the workshop. I’m going to post the link on my FB page so that some of the people asking me questions can get a more detailed description than i provided.

    Looking forward to hearing about New Zealand


  2. Hi Dragos,
    in regards to your opinion about vegas and the casinos.. I’ve had the chance to experience the glam and the excessive spending firsthand.
    I wasn’t very financially conscious during Steve’s workshop and I ended up spending so much money during my weekend visit.. and on “stupid” things.

    Just wanted to throw my opinion – 1. Vegas is the farthest thing from what America really is. In terms of the partying and living the crazy life, Vegas fulfills that role quite well. But like an oasis in a desert (quite literally), its a mirage to most Americans. I am from California and I have good opportunities to experience the good life of Beverly Hills and the OC, but that’s nothing compared to what I experienced in Vegas during my brief stay.
    2. Going back to the illusion – I feel that most people will never experience Vegas fully… It is so different from most peoples life of working hard such that they see Vegas as something very foreign and a once-in-a-while-crazy-party-trip. and that contrast is very distinct. Hope that this showed how radical Vegas is compared to other parts of America.
    Each city has its personality – Vegas just tends to represent gluttony and sin very well..

    Btw.. its my first time here on your blog. I like your website! I’ll be coming back frequently 🙂

  3. Hi Dragos. Some of Steve’s writing just got too weird for me. I’m sure I’m further from his positions than you are. He really had and probably still has some great ideas, but he lost me somewhere along the way.

    As for Las Vegas, I make a trip out there about once a year with some guy friends and we have a fantastic time. I love it. But it’s just a place to go and have some mindless entertainment for people who are in control of themselves. It has no other redeeming values.
    .-= Stephen – Rat Race Trap´s last blog ..Peak-End Experiences Matter Most =-.

  4. Hey, Angela

    Thanks for taking the time to leave a comment here. First of all, it was really nice talking to you and doing all those 1 on 1 exercises at the workshop 🙂

    As for Vegas, I really had this strange feeling of not being the “real thing”. Looks like an outlet for everything you just can’t do in any other part of US. And for that it’s not authentic, people are too jazzed and so, far from being authentic.

    Take care and don’t be shy, just stop by my blog whenever you feel like 🙂

  5. VEGAS. Definitely not a good representation of America, Dragos. I was seriously struggling with the gluttony (EXCESSIVENESS of everything) of the Vegas strip. Vegas would be the last place I ever had planned on visiting; but I chose to go there for the workshop.

    Although some of the things were fun, for the most part I felt overwhelmed spending so much time there myself. I was very happy to be back in Washington State, my regular sized town once again.

    So, as for Vegas being like the rest of the US; not very. I have travelled some around the US – and my favorite other places that didn’t resemble Vegas (there is no where like Vegas) were – New York, New York – Tampa, Florida, Honolulu, Hawaii…

    Also having taken road trips to Oregon, California, and Idaho – I can definitely tell you nothing is quite as insane as the city of Vegas in Nevada. 😀

    But it was an experience for sure. If I ever go back to Vegas, it will be for a very brief weekend. I can only take so much of that atmosphere before my poor little brain explodes! My two cents on this.

    It was an absolute pleasure to get to know you, Dragos.



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