7 Things I Learned From My One Year Old Girl

by dragos on June 10, 2007 · 12 comments

in Parenting, Personal Development, Relationships & Society

As some of you may recall, I have a one year old girl. These days I was in the fortunate position of spending more time with her. And, while playing and preparring meals and feeding her, it just hit me: I have learned a tremendous amount of stuff from her, during this last year. So here is a small list:

  1. Once you’re down, there are literally a gazillion ways to get up again. It only takes just a few new moves to be learned, or a better and innovative usage of the environment…
  2. If you don’t want to do a thing (like eating your vegetables, for instance, or going to sleep) well, there’s nobody in the world who can force you into it. You only do what you really want…
  3. If you do want something badly, then, no matter how many obstacles in the way, how many interdictions from the parents, if you truly and honestly want that thing, and if you are reasonably loudly letting the world knowing about that, well, eventually you’ll get it…
  4. You do not depend on toys. Most of the time, for adult people, toys are translated by: you cannot have enough plasma tv, shiny laptops or expensive cars. But, in the end, nothing compares with a walk in the afternoon. Toys are nice, but you can do even better without them…
  5. You cannot have enough hugs in your life. Regardless of the nature of the hugged object: being it a teddy bear, a plastic puppet, or just your exhausted parents, trying to put you to sleep… At any time in your life, if a hug opportunity is coming, don’t miss it…
  6. Talk is not really necessary. Many times, words are just staying in your way. You can have a decent level of communication only by being yourself. Sooner or later they will get to know you and you’ll communicate without words.
  7. If you really like something, doing it over and over again will not make you bored. You can play with your daddy’s watch, or with your mom’s bracelet hundreds of times, with the same level of joy like the first time. As long as you really enjoy it…

:-)




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1 Alex June 11, 2007 at 12:50 pm

Very nice :)

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2 dragos June 11, 2007 at 12:54 pm

Thanks Alex! It was so surprising to see how much you can learn from a toddler, in a totally unobtrusive and lovely way :-) … Most of the things in life should be like this…

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3 Jamin June 27, 2007 at 12:51 am

It is amazing what we can learn from kids – you’ve made me open my eyes a little wider :)

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4 Dana August 5, 2007 at 1:01 am

and one more thing i may add :) also from your littl’un: one smile is never enough, just go on grinning at the world, and they’ll have no choice but to smile back at you :)
cheers!

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5 dragos August 6, 2007 at 8:32 am

I think I miaaed that one, thanks for pointing ot out to me :-) cheers to you too!

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6 Ron February 3, 2009 at 6:09 pm

Very well said.

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